Chemistry between two lovers is what creates that pull in relationships. It irresistibly draws us to another. But what is this that causes and creates chemistry? The simple answer is energy. Energy with opposite polarity attracts.
This is polarity
Polarity is the electric current that generates an irresistible attraction between partners. The dance of the masculine and feminine energies, each perfectly fulfilling their own roles, is what ignites passion and maintains the intensity of desire. How then can you develop this magnetic polarity to take your relationship from average to exceptional? Now let's get started.
Let's first tackle understanding the idea.
The dynamic interplay between masculine and feminine energy is referred to as relational polarity. These energies are about characteristics and behaviours rather than gender, but it is necessary that the genders imbue the respective characteristics.
The feminine energy represents
receptivity,
intuition, and
nurturing,
whereas the masculine energy is defined by
direction,
decisiveness, and
purpose.
There is an exciting, magnetic connection created when these energies are in balance with one another.
If you have experienced it, you know exactly what I am talking about.
How to cultivate polarity:
It is vital to embrace your inner energy in order to cultivate polarity. The basis of a magnetically polarised connection is this self-awareness. Don't be afraid to be who you really are; being genuine is essential to keeping that potent spark.
For men,
You have a masculine core energy, take the lead with courage and assurance. Make your partner feel safe and valued by taking the lead in a confident manner. This is about giving direction and stability, not about being overbearing. Arrange for dates, make choices, and be a dependable presence in your partner's life. Your assertiveness will facilitate the natural flow and relaxation of feminine energy, resulting in a state of balance.
For women,
Accept your receptivity and intuition. Give yourself permission to be honest and open, expressing your feelings and wants without holding back. This is about making an environment that allows the masculine spirit to flourish, not about being submissive all the time. You can enhance the polarity by inviting your partner to take a stronger stand by showing them compassion and care.
Playful flirting is the spark that fuels polarity. Take part in lighthearted conversations, jokes, and teasing to maintain a lively and stimulating atmosphere. In order to sustain attraction over time, flirting is an essential habit that should not be reserved for the start of a relationship. Don't be hesitant to add humour and spontaneity to your encounters while maintaining the mystery.
Notes for both
Cultivating your unique identities is essential to preserving polarity. Keep pursuing your interests and ambitions on your own; don't let the relationship consume you. The times you spend together are much more thrilling because of the mystery and respect this independence fosters.
Polarity cultivation requires effective communication. Be clear and purposeful in your communication to attract the male energy. Speak with clarity and decisiveness. Create a space for emotional connection by being honest about your feelings and desires in order to align with the feminine energy. Maintaining a balance in communication guarantees that each partner feels respected and heard.
Stay tuned for part 2 for specific details on how each gender can embrace their polarity.
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Love,
Nefertiti x